On my soapbox: Anyone else sick of Extreme Couponing?

I can’t believe people are still watching this show. No, it’s not sour grapes because I wasn’t invited to be on it. I genuinely find it disinteresting.

Here’s the plot: They show someone spending hours upon hours clipping coupons. Highlights of their massive stockpiles that rival some community food pantries. Couponer plans out a trip then goes to store and fills up multiple shopping carts with CRAP. It’s always ramen noodles, fruit rollups and soda. Or some other items that are of the same nutritional quality. Stuff that I would never feed my kids in million years. Throw in a couple hundred items from HBA for added effect (either toothbrushes or deodorant) and head to registers.

Oooohhhhh, and then the suspense begins! Will all the coupons scan correctly? Will the register lock up? Will they have to split up their orders? What will the final total be? (insert your own level of sarcasm here)

I bet that is exactly what happened on last night’s episode, right? And I didn’t even watch it. It’s the same reason I’ve only ever watched a couple of episodes of Deadliest Catch. It’s the same show, over and over. Guys head out fishing, encounter bad weather, couple of guys in the crew don’t get along, they head home. Lather rinse repeat.

I hate what the show is doing to couponing. I hate that people ask me about it all the time. “Have you seen it?” “Is that what you do?” “Do you have that much stuff in your house?” For the record, my answers are yes, sort of-but not to that extent, and of course not.

It paints an unrealistic picture of what supercouponing is all about. It encourages fraud. It makes us all look like hoarders, when *most* of us are just trying to save money for our families and not be greedy. It causes us sane and normal couponers to have to explain ourselves, over and over, so that we don’t look crazy. It has only served to give TLC decent ratings and a few extreme couponers extra publicity for their websites. The only people who seem to enjoy the show are the people that are on it & some of their blog followers. The rest of the coupon world, by and large, dislikes the show. You want to get free stuff like that? Great. Then stop watching the show. Because the more publicity it gets, the more the big stores are going to clamp down on their generous coupon policies. Several big chains in the south and the midwest have recently changed their policies, and not in the couponer’s favor. I think it’s more than coincidence that it happened right as the show became popular. How many shows are left in the season? Is it almost over?

Related: CIC statement on the show. Opinion from Coupons, Deals & More. Hotcouponworld forums/blogs discussion.

Retailers getting tougher on couponers

Tonight ABC news ran a segment on the backlash from Extreme Couponing. I’d love to post the link, but I can’t find it.

ETA: LINK! It was available Monday morning.

First, what made me cringe is that while they are interviewing one blogger about coupon fraud, they are showing clips of another couponer. One who does not commit coupon fraud. Which is unfortunate for her. I actually happen to know that person, and I have a feeling she’s going to be upset about it.

Keep in mind, that just like with anything, the actual amount of people who commit coupon fraud is very small. Most people are doing it honestly. And that’s just what we need to do, keep being honest about it. Even though it feels awkward at times to get tons of free stuff, if you’re not doing anything wrong, don’t worry about it. And fine, be a party pooper and if you know someone is doing something that is fraudulent, report them. If you see a site that is discussing fraudulent use, send that link to our friend Bud Miller at the CIC. If you have questions about the validity of a coupon, ask hotcouponworld. They’ll add it to their fake coupons list, if it is indeed a fake, so word gets out.

It’s easy to stay away from the sketchy sites, they make themselves known pretty quickly. There are many big sites and blogs, with thousands of followers, that post things against a particular store’s or coupon’s wording. And when they’re called out on it, they either delete the comment, ban the user, ignore it or whatever.

I really hate when stuff like this happens. Coupon fraud hurts all of us. Will be interesting to see what the backlash is as a result of all of this.

Back to Basics Series: I want free stuff! (Or do you?)

Couponing is becoming much more popular. Lots of reasons-crappy economy, a certain tv show…..people who have never done it are gawking at our stockpiles of free stuff and saying “I want free stuff!” I love love love free stuff. Just ask my husband. At least twice a month we have this conversation: Him-“we don’t need all that ‘insert name of free item.’ “Me-“But it was free!” Him-“Doesn’t matter, we don’t need it.” And then we either use it or donate it. Sometimes he’s right (all the granola bars & Cheezits I just gave away) and sometimes I’m right (the 30 jars of spaghetti sauce he said we’d never use, and we did, in much less than a year’s time!).

But as a result of the economy, the tv show, or whatever else brought you here, you’ve decided you want to save money. And possibly become one of those supercouponers. Or do you? I’ve received lots of requests for assistance lately and as I promised some of you, I’d do a “Back to Basics” series of posts. For beginning couponers, how to get started, what to do, where to begin. Because in the beginning, it can be overwhelming. So here it is, the first post in that series.

What I’m going to do, is present you with some questions to ask yourself, and tell you what you need to become a supercouponer. Really look at it, decide if this is something you want to pursue. It’s not all or nothing. You don’t have to be a supercouponer or not coupon at all. Even if you just get one newspaper a week or just use printable coupons, with smart spending you can save a significant % at the grocery store. There are often simple freebies to be had with one coupon or none at all. I don’t want to scare any one off, thinking they have to get multiple coupon inserts to gain from this blog.

First, the TLC show is a very unrealistic depiction of what it takes. At one end of the spectrum, they show someone spending 80 hours a week doing this. I don’t know anyone who does that, nor would I ever! At the other end of the spectrum, they show shoppers getting 5 or 6 carts full of stuff all in one transaction, as if it were that simple.

Know that building a stockpile of free stuff takes time. You find one product category one week, another the next. I never get it all at once. This week for me it was greeting cards, wipes & diapers. I have enough to last several months. Next week it will be snacks and soft drinks, and I’ll get enough to last several months. The week after that, who knows? You decide what your stockpile price is for a commodity, and when you can get it at that price, you stockpile. Stockpile prices are highly personal-it has to do with how much you need or want that item.

As far as time spent clipping & couponing, I probably spend 5-10 hours a week total. This includes checking out my favorite deal site, clipping coupons and doing matchups. I usually try to keep to two shopping trips per week. One trip is my regular weekly shopping trip for my household, during which I score whatever deals I can. Another trip is spent just getting free or supercheap stuff. Five to ten hours each week may sound like a lot, but I have figured that I am saving about $100-$150 on my weekly groceries, so $10-$20 per hour is ok with me. That’s my return, that’s what I’m getting for my time.

To be a supercouponer you need the following: about five hours of time each week and access to multiple coupon inserts. That’s it, really. From there, it’s just a matter of learning the deals in your area, at your stores, and stacking those deals. I never recommend that people buy multiple newspapers. I read of women buying ten or twenty papers, and that means you’re already $20-$40 in the hole each week, before you’ve clipped anything! I don’t want to have to make up that much ground. Ask family, friends, coworkers, neighbors. Put a bin out in your workplace breakroom, preschool, church, school with a sign that says “Please leave your Sunday coupons here if you don’t use them.” You’ll be surprised at what you get. Ask at your local newsstand, library, school, mini market–ask what they do with them on Mondays. Ask your local news carrier. I never recommend dumpster diving either, but some people do it. Whatever fits you.

Find a deal site or a blog or two that you like and follow them. Most will spell out all the deals for you. Non-couponers and supercouponers do the same deals, supercouponers just do them with stockpiling in mind. Stay tuned for the rest of the Back to Basics series–tell me, what would you like explained to you?

 

 

Welcome Extreme & Non-Extreme Couponers

With the airing of Extreme Couponing last night, the internet will be flooded with new folks wanting to score free stuff. So if your google search brought you to this blog, welcome! I highlight some big national chains like CVS, Walgreen’s, Big Lots & Dollar General. But, if you’re from southeastern PA or northern DE, I also bring you lots of local deals as well.

I also recognize that while supercouponing is fun for me, it’s not for everyone. You can still get great deals without having coupons take over your life or your house. I even do several weekly features that don’t require any coupons for you to get great deals.

Stay tuned!