It’s not my imagination! TLC is affecting us.

 

Interesting article today in Entrepeneur Magazine–How to Stop Losing Money from Coupons.

If you’ve been following me for as long as “that show” has been on, you know I’m not a fan. And I’m prone to rant about it.

 

My existential couponing crisis

 

Anyone else sick of Extreme Couponing?

 

Retailers getting tougher on couponers

 

If TLC is The Learning Channel, What are we learning?

 

But, as shown in the Entrepeneur article, retailers have had enough. Also, if you’ve followed this blog, you’ve surely noticed I’ve cut way back on the amount of matchups I do.  Even promoting home delivery services like Peapod. Make no mistake, I’m still a serious couponer. In fact, just scored a nice haul of detergent today at Target, on clearance + coupons. But I also heard from a couponing friend that was hassled tonight at our local Acme, and they wouldn’t take her bogo printables.

 

Look, I am friends with several of the bloggers/couponers that have been on that show. They’re nice people and the ones that I know are honest, polite and to my knowledge don’t commit coupon fraud. But by and large, that show has been a disaster for us that have been doing this a long time. My hope is that this will blow over within a year or two, the economy will rebound more and people will lose interest. Couponing does take time and it’s not for everyone. Another one of the reasons why I don’t just bring you coupon deals. If you try to save money solely by clipping coupons, you’re not going to come out that much ahead. Grocery budgets are only 9-10% of your household budget–even if everything is free, you still have 90% of your household budget to look at, for ways to trim money.

 

 

If this is your lifestyle, we’ll evolve. If you are just in this for the freebies and think it’s easy to just walk into a store and walk out with four carts of crap for free………then you’ll probably fade away. The guidelines have gotten gradually stricter over the past 5 years, increasingly more strict over the past year. But, I’m still able to find very cheap and free stuff, and have no plans to stop. The difference is that most of us die-hards are reasonable about it, not demanding to cashiers, nor do I commit fraud to get there.

 

Thanks to one of my fellow mods on hcw for the heads up on the article!

On my soapbox: Anyone else sick of Extreme Couponing?

I can’t believe people are still watching this show. No, it’s not sour grapes because I wasn’t invited to be on it. I genuinely find it disinteresting.

Here’s the plot: They show someone spending hours upon hours clipping coupons. Highlights of their massive stockpiles that rival some community food pantries. Couponer plans out a trip then goes to store and fills up multiple shopping carts with CRAP. It’s always ramen noodles, fruit rollups and soda. Or some other items that are of the same nutritional quality. Stuff that I would never feed my kids in million years. Throw in a couple hundred items from HBA for added effect (either toothbrushes or deodorant) and head to registers.

Oooohhhhh, and then the suspense begins! Will all the coupons scan correctly? Will the register lock up? Will they have to split up their orders? What will the final total be? (insert your own level of sarcasm here)

I bet that is exactly what happened on last night’s episode, right? And I didn’t even watch it. It’s the same reason I’ve only ever watched a couple of episodes of Deadliest Catch. It’s the same show, over and over. Guys head out fishing, encounter bad weather, couple of guys in the crew don’t get along, they head home. Lather rinse repeat.

I hate what the show is doing to couponing. I hate that people ask me about it all the time. “Have you seen it?” “Is that what you do?” “Do you have that much stuff in your house?” For the record, my answers are yes, sort of-but not to that extent, and of course not.

It paints an unrealistic picture of what supercouponing is all about. It encourages fraud. It makes us all look like hoarders, when *most* of us are just trying to save money for our families and not be greedy. It causes us sane and normal couponers to have to explain ourselves, over and over, so that we don’t look crazy. It has only served to give TLC decent ratings and a few extreme couponers extra publicity for their websites. The only people who seem to enjoy the show are the people that are on it & some of their blog followers. The rest of the coupon world, by and large, dislikes the show. You want to get free stuff like that? Great. Then stop watching the show. Because the more publicity it gets, the more the big stores are going to clamp down on their generous coupon policies. Several big chains in the south and the midwest have recently changed their policies, and not in the couponer’s favor. I think it’s more than coincidence that it happened right as the show became popular. How many shows are left in the season? Is it almost over?

Related: CIC statement on the show. Opinion from Coupons, Deals & More. Hotcouponworld forums/blogs discussion.

If TLC is ‘The Learning Channel,’ what are we learning?

Last night was another episode of the TLC show Extreme Couponers. Once again, I chose to watch The Middle and Modern Family. Once again, all the various coupon boards and deal blogs are all a-buzz with chatter about the show.

Me? Meh. I’m already bored with it and think the show has run it’s course. I certainly understand the voyeuristic appeal of the show, especially for those who don’t coupon. Just like I enjoyed watching a woman eat several rolls of toilet paper per day, I see how some like to watch this. But after watching the toilet-paper-eating woman and the woman who sleeps with her blowdryer, I got bored. And watching people redeem coupons is not that exciting.

Sure, I’m mildly annoyed that the show is giving so much mileage to a woman who commits coupon fraud regularly. She’s even getting more PR today as she is on my Yahoo feed. But watching someone commit coupon fraud is about as exciting as watching someone commit insurance fraud. And I don’t see TLC scrambling to make a show on that. And what she shows is crazy. The Yahoo article quotes her as saying that for one trip, she and several friends clipped ten hours a day for four days. Seriously? I can only imagine what that conversation is like–me trying to convince my friends to clip coupons for me, for 40 hours. They deserve to be portrayed as loons if that’s what they’re doing.

Apparently last night’s episode showed the guy taking his haul and donating it to the troops. How quaint and American. That’s our battle cry, so that you don’t think we’re nuts. “But weeeee dooonnnnnattttttteeeee!” we whine in unison. So that you don’t instead nominate us for the other TLC show Hoarders. Look, I get dozens of coupon inserts every week, I clip lots of coupons, redeem lots of coupons and have a huge stockpile of free stuff in my basement. And lots of you think it’s quirky and odd and all those things. I really don’t give a shit if you think I’m nuts. Yes, I donate. Tons of stuff actually. But I could care less if you even know about my donating, I don’t need your validation thankyouverymuch. I find it peculiar that so many do need validation. I think some of the interests that lots of people have are odd, it’s just that TLC isn’t necessarily making a show of it. I think it’s weird that some people dress up in outfits from another era in time, and then gather with other folks who are similarly dressed. I think it’s odd that some people reenact battles. I think it’s odd that some people can recite every.single.statistic for a particular sports team, know every fact about them going back 50 years. But just like I wonder why they would fill their head with that much information, they wonder the same about me–and how I know the coupon policies for every store within ten miles of my home. I sort of get, but still don’t, why so many couponers feel the need to explain themselves as a result of this show. I do what I do and was doing it long before it was cool. Mrs. Duggar makes absolutely no apologies for what she does. Why should we? People are going to think what they’re going to think, regardless of what we say.

In closing, I’ll share two articles I’ve been asked to share. One is from the Coupon Information Center which investigates fraud. The other is from one of the deal sites, and has some good points about things that the show doesn’t show you. Personally, I do think it encroaches upon the principle of “he doth protest much” as far as explaining ourselves, but overall a good essay.

Let’s get back to the deal talk. And I completely understand that getting multiple coupon inserts and supercouponing is NOT for everyone, so I promise to not only focus on that. I try to make this sort of a ‘couponing for everyone’ blog that everyone can participate in, at their own level of interest.

ETA: And if you’re not watching ABC on Wednesday nights, I really think you’re missing out. It’s not often that my husband actually laughs out loud at a tv show, but Modern Family and Better With You had him doing just that. I love The Middle because the writing and acting is so good, you really believe characters like Sue are real. It’s a good night on tv, the first one we’ve had in a long time, watch it!

Welcome Extreme & Non-Extreme Couponers

With the airing of Extreme Couponing last night, the internet will be flooded with new folks wanting to score free stuff. So if your google search brought you to this blog, welcome! I highlight some big national chains like CVS, Walgreen’s, Big Lots & Dollar General. But, if you’re from southeastern PA or northern DE, I also bring you lots of local deals as well.

I also recognize that while supercouponing is fun for me, it’s not for everyone. You can still get great deals without having coupons take over your life or your house. I even do several weekly features that don’t require any coupons for you to get great deals.

Stay tuned!