Custom Autumn Treat Bag~$5.99 shipped

It’s the latest from Ink Garden-a customized trick-or-treat bag for just $1 plus $4.99 S&H. If you don’t need it for Trick-or-Treat, think of other fall gifts you may need it for.

Holiday Expenses~plan now with our budget spreadsheet

piggy bankIt’s the last day of September, that means Christmas is less than 90 days away! So let’s talk about the holidays–all of them. Think about the next six months or so–from Halloween through Valentine’s Day. Think about how many holidays and occasions are in that time frame. And nothing sabotages a household budget faster than unplanned holiday expenses. It’s still September, so take some time to plan. Look at your budgets and plan how much you’re going to spend. Keep in mind, that holiday budgets isn’t just about gifts. Lots of families make that mistake, but there are some many other incidental purchases that occur (like holiday cards and stamps) that really add up!

When you see this huge list, it might seem overwhelming. Just take it one holiday at a time and plan realistically. It will avoid much stress & disappointment later. There is even a holiday budgeting spreadsheet for you to use at the bottom. NOTE: You will NOT be able to edit it until you do “make a copy.”  Go to—>File—>Make a copy. Then save it for yourself. My copy that is published is read only. If you mess up the formulas, come back and grab a clean copy.

 

Halloween-

  • costumes
  • candy for home & school & workplace & other community events (scouts, church, etc.)
  • a day or outing at a pumpkin patch or orchard
  • cards (hey, some people do them!)
  • decorations, including pumpkins for carving, mums for the porch, etc.

You can see how something like Halloween can easily cost a family a few hundred dollars or more, so plan for it!

Thanksgiving-

  • food
  • alcohol
  • decorations-and think top to bottom-everything from tableware to candles to carpet cleaning
  • any family outings or traditions you do, like a family picture
  • school things like Thanksgiving dinners
  • put aside some for food banks
  • travel expenses to see family

Christmas-

  • gifts; ok, not trying to be Captain Obvious, but think about EVERYONE you give gifts to. Babysitters, teachers, therapists, mail carriers, garbagemen (yes, I do), babysitters, music/extracurricular teachers & coaches, work, spouse’s work, hairdresser and so on and so on. Set a limit!
  • food; again-think about ALL the extra parties & events you’ll be purchasing food for-work, school, book clubs, civic groups, family gatherings, scouts, kids’ extracurricular stuff,
  • cards, photos, postage
  • clothing for special occasions
  • decorations
  • year end donations
  • babysitters for extra social events you have
  • spending money for week between Christmas & New Year’s-when kids don’t have school & usually families do things
  • any mini vacations or travelling you will do to see family
  • school fundraisers
  • any adopt-a-family or similar efforts you participate in

New Year’s & January football-

  • food
  • alcohol
  • decorations
  • extra cable packages or electronics
  • clothing
  • betting pools
  • babysitter for nights out

Valentine’s Day-

  • cards-home/family
  • cards-school/community
  • candy
  • flowers
  • jewelry
  • dinner out
  • babysitter

Here is how the spreadsheet looks. As it appears here, you cannot add to it or change it–that’s to protect it and keep the formulas intact. However, use the hyperlink earlier in the post to access it. When it appears after you click that link, go to file—make a copy, and save your own copy of it. That one you can edit. Then, if you mess up and accidentally erase some formulas, come back and grab it again. It will tally all of your expenses for you and keep a running total of how your budget is doing.

{Work at Home….Friday?} Win a copy of Mastering the Mommy Track, and meet the author!

Ok, so for this week’s “Work at Home Wednesday” post, I moved it to Friday so that we could be a part of Erin Flynn Jay’s virtual book tour. Erin is a fellow Philly Social Media Mom who is having her first book published. How awesome is that?  And, at the end of the post, you can win your own copy when it’s released. Here is a bit about Erin and her “work at home” experiences and persona-Erin Flynn Jay—writer, author, publicity expert.

 

I have been a freelance writer and PR executive since 2001. Can’t believe it’s over 11 years on my own. I am author of the new book, Mastering the Mommy Track: Juggling Career and Kids in Uncertain Times (ISBN 978-1780991238, 2012, John Hunt Publishing, available on Amazon and barnesandnoble.com). I was recently accepted into the American Society of Journalists and Authors (ASJA).

My clients are small businesses, authors and PR agencies. I’m hired on an as-needed basis to write material and promote their products or books. When living in NYC, I learned the ropes of book publicity from a literary PR firm. Since then, I’ve worked with individual authors and experts, securing them media interviews and coverage. I’m promoting my own book, saving the cost of hiring a publicist.

I got started in 2001 by freelance writing for careerbuilder.com. I began to write more articles for them and thoroughly enjoyed it—this gave me the idea to go out on my own. A business coach gave me the wise advice to offer several services if I wanted to be self-employed—so I launched my Flynn Media website www.flynnmedia.com, offering writing, editing and PR services.

I enjoy working from home and the flexible schedule. I do end up having to work sometimes in the evenings or weekends. Some clients want material written immediately, so when I’m offered work at a decent rate, I take it even if the deadline is immediate. I don’t mind working at midnight if I have an enjoyable assignment.

The hurdle I face at times is replenishment of clients. When I’m busy with client work, I have little time for marketing. When business is slow, it can be frustrating. When a long-term contract is up, I sometimes find it stressful to find replacement work. But I just keep plugging away, and win new business in due time.

I really hope I can remain self-employed forever. I mention in my book I’d like to get involved with ghostwriting books for others and also social media management. I’m building my own social media platform—it’s been a learning curve. This past week, my facebook author site Mastering the Mommy Track had over 800 views! Really excited that moms are interested in the content. It’s a timely topic given the economic downturn. There are a lot of struggling moms out there—my book was written with them in mind.

Thanks so much for sharing with us. Now, to win your own copy, all you have to do is leave a comment below–one entry per person. Tell us what is one of your biggest challenges in “mastering the Mommy track.” What things are hardest for you to juggle, between work and home? A winning entry will be chosen by Random.org on Sunday, October 7 and I’ll notify you with the email you used (not visible to public) to enter. Good luck….both with the giveaway and with “Mastering the Mommy Track.”


Wordless Wednesday~ September 19

sunrise, sunrise over Jersey shore

Sunrise over the Atlantic Ocean, September 2012.