Back to Basics: Finding time

When people learn that some of my friends & I are supercouponers, combined with what they see on tv, a common question I get is–“Where do you find the time?”

First, remember that “that tv show” has the word EXTREME in the title. It’s meant to be extreme and shocking. And despite being an admitted couponer for about two decades, I have yet to meet anyone that has ever spent 40 or 80 hours a week clipping coupons. This is an activity that takes a bit of learning, just like any activity, which is why I recommend you start small. Learn all the policies and promos at one or two stores and that’s it. Once you learn those, branch out and add more stores where you see decent deals. If you do try to do what they are doing on TV, all at once, it will be time consuming and overwhelming.

Here is what my week usually looks like as far as couponing:

Sunday evening or Monday evening-after boys have gone to bed, I clip my coupons. Since I usually have multiple inserts, I “gang cut” them, which means I sort them out page by page, making stacks of like-pages. Then I cut all at once. I usually only do stacks of six–if I have more than six sets of any one insert, I just file it away, unless it’s a coupon that I definitely know I will use all of them. Otherwise six of any one coupon is plenty. All together, this may take me about an hour, maybe more if there were four separate inserts or something that weekend. But if it’s the usual one Smartsource, one Red Plum, then only 30-60 minutes tops. (and btw, the term ‘gang cut’ makes me chuckle, but I didn’t make it up–I’ve actually seen it in fine print in some store ads)

If I am doing a CVS or Walgreens trip that week, I pick a day when my older son is in school so I only have to take my younger son. I highly recommend going childless if possible, lol. Set aside one day or your little block of time each week, if you’re going to do this. A few weeks ago, I ran into a couponing mom at Walgreens. She had both her boys with her and she said she always goes on Sunday mornings. She takes the boys and this is her hubby’s one day to sleep in. Another friend I have teaches a class two evenings a week, and after class she goes, because hubby is at home with her kids. Whatever works for you, but make it a part of a routine and you won’t feel as overwhelmed. If you have teens and tweens, especially daughters, consider getting them involved and letting them do their own deals for hair & makeup stuff.

Other than that, I just do my regular shopping trip and I pick my grocery store based on who is offering the best deals overall. Each morning while having my coffee, I check hotcouponworld to see if there’s anything I’m missing, and that’s it. This doesn’t have to be overwhelming and take over your life.

It’s ok to not clip coupons

I am a self-professed supercouponer. I clip coupons, lots of them. I have an arrangement with my local newsstand, I peruse the web for deals, and I get tons of shit for free. All the time. That doesn’t mean you have to do the same. I often retell the college story, of how I got a free bottle of shampoo with a coupon, and ever since I’ve been hooked. I also was raised by a very frugal grandmother. I couldn’t pay full price for something if I tried!

Clipping coupons isn't for everyone.

Supercouponing (or dare I say, extreme couponing, blech) is all the rage these days. But what if you’re really not interested in clipping coupons? That’s ok.

In the past 20 years that I’ve been doing this, I’ve shared hundreds of deals with friends & family. And I’ve had dozens and dozens say to me “I want to do that.” And in 20 years, only one person, my friend L, has done it. Seriously, one person in 20 years.  And I’ll be perfectly honest, when she first emailed me, I probably rolled my eyes reading her email. Thinking, “Ok, we have another person, I’ll spend a bunch of time telling them some of the starter tips, and she’ll never follow though.”

But she did. Within a week, she had a source for muliple inserts. I could see the wheels turning in her brain, it just clicked. I know now, that when she goes to the store, her brain instantly thinks in deals, like mine does.

That doesn’t mean it’s for everyone. Even though my brain arrives at the deals and processes them quickly, I still have to spend 1-2 hours every two weeks, clipping and sorting. I still have to find the patience to shop, with a 2 year old and a 4 year old, and process these deals without having them distract me. There are things I don’t do–I don’t play any online games, I don’t twitter, I don’t watch tv or movies, and so on. I actually enjoy clipping coupons, finding deals and posting about them. Really, I do. Even so, life comes first.

You either like it or you don’t. And that’s ok, whatever you choose.

While I spend time here publishing good coupon deals, I publish lots of other smart spending tips, that don’t require a pair of scissors. In fact,  I was just speaking with some PECO people today, and am excited about something I have to post about saving on your electric bill.

Yes, there are lots of great deals and freebies to be had with coupons. And there are lots of great deals to be had without coupons.

I would compare it to health & fitness–there are lots of ways to stay healthy without going to a gym every day and working out. I choose the other options, because right now, going to a gym daily just doesn’t fit in my lifestyle. And it’s annoying to be lectured on it, kwim? I *know* the benefits of working out in a gym, it’s just not a priority for me right now.

On my soapbox: My integrity is worth more than a few tubes of toothpaste…….

A quick word on the Acme deal this week, the $5 instant savings–

I’ve seen it discussed in several places where shoppers are talking about using some Colgate coupons that will give them overage on the toothpaste. I had many different Colgate coupons, and none of them matched up. The $0.75 coupons are for a more expensive variety, it’s $2.50, not $0.99. The toothbrush coupons do not match up either.

Hey, maybe I’m wrong. Maybe there are $0.75 coupons out there that match up. But seeing as I get my inserts from all over southeastern PA, and several different newspapers, I doubt it.

This is the crap I’m getting sick of. It’s just mis-using a little coupon here & there, against the wording on the coupon…..and you betcha that Acme and Colgate/Palmolive are going to look at this closely and change it for the future. They’ll tighten the reins and make it harder on all of us. Harder to score deals, or they’ll only offer instant savings on products for which there aren’t currently any coupons out.

Are people really that hard up for a tube of toothpaste and $0.51?  Why is it necessary to try to sneak this past the stores and the cashiers? Why can’t shoppers just stick to the wording on the coupons?

On my soapbox: Anyone else sick of Extreme Couponing?

I can’t believe people are still watching this show. No, it’s not sour grapes because I wasn’t invited to be on it. I genuinely find it disinteresting.

Here’s the plot: They show someone spending hours upon hours clipping coupons. Highlights of their massive stockpiles that rival some community food pantries. Couponer plans out a trip then goes to store and fills up multiple shopping carts with CRAP. It’s always ramen noodles, fruit rollups and soda. Or some other items that are of the same nutritional quality. Stuff that I would never feed my kids in million years. Throw in a couple hundred items from HBA for added effect (either toothbrushes or deodorant) and head to registers.

Oooohhhhh, and then the suspense begins! Will all the coupons scan correctly? Will the register lock up? Will they have to split up their orders? What will the final total be? (insert your own level of sarcasm here)

I bet that is exactly what happened on last night’s episode, right? And I didn’t even watch it. It’s the same reason I’ve only ever watched a couple of episodes of Deadliest Catch. It’s the same show, over and over. Guys head out fishing, encounter bad weather, couple of guys in the crew don’t get along, they head home. Lather rinse repeat.

I hate what the show is doing to couponing. I hate that people ask me about it all the time. “Have you seen it?” “Is that what you do?” “Do you have that much stuff in your house?” For the record, my answers are yes, sort of-but not to that extent, and of course not.

It paints an unrealistic picture of what supercouponing is all about. It encourages fraud. It makes us all look like hoarders, when *most* of us are just trying to save money for our families and not be greedy. It causes us sane and normal couponers to have to explain ourselves, over and over, so that we don’t look crazy. It has only served to give TLC decent ratings and a few extreme couponers extra publicity for their websites. The only people who seem to enjoy the show are the people that are on it & some of their blog followers. The rest of the coupon world, by and large, dislikes the show. You want to get free stuff like that? Great. Then stop watching the show. Because the more publicity it gets, the more the big stores are going to clamp down on their generous coupon policies. Several big chains in the south and the midwest have recently changed their policies, and not in the couponer’s favor. I think it’s more than coincidence that it happened right as the show became popular. How many shows are left in the season? Is it almost over?

Related: CIC statement on the show. Opinion from Coupons, Deals & More. Hotcouponworld forums/blogs discussion.